She probably wanted to marry one of those men when younger, and probably would have accepted a proposal from one of them had one been forthcoming. But the men she was dating were men who would not have married her, for any number of reasons: They have options. She was easily replaceable – if she refused them, they’d have a new woman in a short time. They don’t want to marry, mostly because they don’t have to marry in order to secure sex from sexually desirable women. They were married before and don’t want to marry now.
She married her current husband because she couldn’t get one of those more attractive men to commit to her, not even by offering up her most valuable asset – sexual access. Full stop. This is the ONLY reason that she’s married to the man she is now – he was there, he wasn’t repulsive, she could stomach the sex with him, he offered commitment, she finally resigned herself to going downmarket to get what she wanted. It’s a bit like shopping for a new car. You’d love the Lambo, even got to test drive one. Some got to rent the Lambo for a few weeks. What fuuuuun. But truth be told, you can’t afford the Lambo, and you quickly figure out you can’t. Same with the Ferrari, the Bentley and the Maserati. So you settle for the Ford or the Toyota or maybe if you’re lucky, a used BMW, and it’s “good enough”.
212
Ted D says:
September 2, 2014 at 11:52 am
In all fairness I did state that a UMC man may very well be willing to start a family at 40.
I’m not UMC. None of my friends and family are UMC. The vast majority of men are not UMC. I realize that is the target audience for Evan’s clients, but they are fishing in a rather empty pond.
https://pad.multiplace.org/s/SyI-uWXJGl
https://pad.janniklorenz.de/s/btYe9jJhN
https://pads.jeito.nl/s/DFWrkWXd5B
https://codimd.data-futures.org/s/S77aQnJFJD
https://docs.lagonette.org/s/r_A7FXZl5
https://docs.klg21.de/s/zz5m4Q-3Q
https://m.dre.li/s/Ii57kQ8uU3
https://pad.p2p.legal/s/afQ8PGyzj
https://codi.hostile.education/s/vkaXA1E0K
https://doc.eth.si/s/Tgcbv99T-
https://md.ocpp.myds.me/s/ZYvAsUbYz
https://md.mandragot.org/s/UNl0arL66c
https://markdown.competentit.ru/s/eij1O2nzK
https://docs.southfox.me/s/sKiMatNSko
https://hd.gru.guru/s/v0tWuazEx